How do you know when you have connected to someone or something?

This requires discernment, reflection, and ultimately connection to who I am and what I want. Join me in reflecting on this question this month. What does it mean to connect and why is it important to do so? Do you ever get overwhelmed by scheduling your day, week, or month?
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Agustina:
I miss him, should I text him?
(19 November 2016)

Agustina:
I m dying to reconnect, but I don t know how to start.
(19 November 2016)

Agustina:
And when I replied, he never said anything back.
(19 November 2016)

Agustina:
I don t know what to do.... On my birthday, he messaged me and said we should talk more.
(19 November 2016)

Agustina:
And I ve started to miss my old friend.
(19 November 2016)

Agustina:
I had a boyfriend but we just had a pretty messy breakup earlier this month.
(19 November 2016)

Agustina:
And the guy who liked me has a new girlfriend.
(19 November 2016)

Agustina:
Since then, we all aren t very close anymore.
(19 November 2016)

Agustina:
We still talked a bit but it wasn t the same.
(19 November 2016)

Agustina:
I politely told him that I didn t feel the same and just wanted to be friends.
(19 November 2016)