Neither argument can overcome the other outright

In fact, it is fundamental to our understanding of the deep-seated dispute between red-zoners and business-as-usualers. All we can do is discuss how we proceed in such a bind, and recognise who might be the winners and who might be the losers. Our response needs to reflect that, by treating those concerned fairly.
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Jill:
How do I deal with my gf?
(19 December 2016)

Jill:
There s a reason on why I reply to her and I hold her hand.
(19 December 2016)

Jill:
She said she was sorry about the behavior and will want to make our hangout more perfect after every date.
(19 December 2016)

Jill:
She have been over caring about the little things way too many times.
(19 December 2016)

Mavis:
Why should I give you best answer?
(19 December 2016)

Dori:
Slept with a divorced man and he regretted it?
(19 December 2016)

Dori:
I asked him about the kisses and said it meant he respected me and it was real.
(19 December 2016)

Dori:
We talked since then but has not been the same.He told me he regretted it and said we should've waited a long time before sex.
(19 December 2016)

Dori:
This is what has baffled me We got hammered one night and slept together.
(19 December 2016)

Dori:
He has kissed my forehead and shoulder, sending me mixed signals.
(19 December 2016)