Othering and has been dismissed for that reason by ace people

It is our right to choose our own word. Allosexual specifically refers to people who experience sexual attraction. The word is not sexualising in and of itself. Allo privilege is not experiencing acephobia. They are two sides of the same coin. All it means is that in this specific instance, they have privileges.
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Emmaline:
A few days ago I asked if she wanted to get back together and it took her a week to give me an answer.
(8 October 2016)

Emmaline:
I tried the no contact and at least once a week she tried making contact.
(8 October 2016)

Emmaline:
I m over the fact that she broke up with me but she says that I am one of her best friends, she still likes my Facebook posts and we still talk even 7 months later.
(8 October 2016)

Emmaline:
Me and my girlfriend had a long distance relationship going when we both joined the military.
(8 October 2016)

Charolette:
Why do girls act this way around me?
(8 October 2016)

Charolette:
It's kinda weird because I always get up the courage to ask them out, and then they start acting distant and stuff, so I don't and then the next week they change their attitude towards me and the process almost starts over.
(8 October 2016)

Charolette:
Almost all the girls I know do this, why?
(8 October 2016)

Charolette:
Then the next week, they are completely different again, acting how they did when I first met them.
(8 October 2016)

Charolette:
But eventually these girls start to act more reserved around me, even ignoring me at times, so then I get the impression they don't like me that way so I move on, but still consider them friends.
(8 October 2016)

Charolette:
I meet the girl, talk with her, get to know her, etc and everything is good.
(8 October 2016)