This can even mean division from family and friends

Jesus came not to make us feel good, but to make us to be good. St Philomena is a great patroness for those suffering division in their families. Comments must be approved by the moderator before being published. Use a name or pseudonym and please keep the comments short (less than 100 words), to the point, and civil.
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Johnna:
I just need some advice from people who have experienced this on how to make this work, and how to stop feeling like my world has fallen apart.
(4 September 2016)

Johnna:
I can't stop crying and I feel so alone, and I feel like this is the end of us.
(4 September 2016)

Johnna:
We've been dating for about 16 months and the goodbye was absolutely miserable.
(4 September 2016)

Johnna:
He may come back after a year, and if not I will most likely go to wherever he is.
(4 September 2016)

Johnna:
My boyfriend just moved today for school, a little over 1,400 miles away from me.
(4 September 2016)

Carita:
As a man is my boyfriend an embarrassment?
(4 September 2016)

Carita:
He isn't even aggressive at all.
(4 September 2016)

Carita:
Instead of partying and drinking like the rest of the men my boyfriend finds joys in the unmanly activities.
(4 September 2016)

Carita:
Even his friends laugh and tease him about his volunteering.
(4 September 2016)

Carita:
I just think he is such a pansy and gay.
(4 September 2016)