But never away to do fun things for more than a night

I let my kids down in a big way. She has been away from home, of course. The Girl-child is staying home because she has a job. And I have, like, a million pets. Last night, it all seemed like a good idea, a great one, even. We went to St Augustine as honeymooners 21 years ago, and we loved it so much.
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Ruthe:
Growing up, i've never had a white friend.
(11 August 2016)

Ruthe:
I'm a shy and quiet black girl who've never had a boyfriend.
(11 August 2016)

Annis:
How to get her attention? HELP?
(11 August 2016)

Annis:
How do I get her to text me and check up on me again?
(11 August 2016)

Annis:
She won't initiate conversations with me but replies to my texts quickly.
(11 August 2016)

Annis:
I never told her but I love her.
(11 August 2016)

Annis:
Its because she told me she isn' ready for a serious relationship and she thinks I don't want to wait anymore.
(11 August 2016)

Annis:
This happened 3 days ago and we have been talking very little since.
(11 August 2016)

Annis:
No harsh words were used but somehow she was offended.
(11 August 2016)

Annis:
I thought she was playing games with me because she said she wasnt ready for a serious relationship.
(11 August 2016)